Lesson 34 – David Becomes King

  • Read the Bible Background
  • Material skipped - - 1st Samuel 25-27
    • Death of Samuel
    • David & Abigail (his second wife)
    • David spares Saul’s life
    • David becomes a vassal of the Philistines

 

 

1.    Why do you think David served as a unifying figure for the tribes of Israel?

2.    Who anointed David as king?

3.     David is introduced as a young boy “keeping the sheep” when Samuel selects him as the next king (1 Samuel 16:11).  The metaphor of shepherd continues in 2 Samuel when David is anointed as king. 
What would it mean for David to be shepherd over
Israel?
Why did the image of shepherd make a good metaphor for a leader?
What metaphors do we use for leaders today?

4.    For generations, people looked back on the leadership of David with great fondness.  Paragraph 8 of the “Bible Background” lists the qualities of leadership that belonged to David:
        loyal friend
        great warrior
        fine judge of character
        imaginative administrator
        sought God’s guidance
        respected religious tradition
        retained loyalty of other leaders
Which of these leadership qualities do we value in leaders today?

 

    • Making the story your own
      When the prophet Ezekiel spoke about the time when God would restore
      Israel, he imagined a “new David” who would emerge to save them (Ezekiel 34:23-24: 37:24-25). Given what you have learned about David so far, why do you think that his life became a symbol of salvation in later years?

 

Memory verse: 2 Samuel 5:2b

The Lord said to (David): It is you who shall be shepherd of my people Israel, you who shall be ruler over Israel.”

 


Bible Background (taken from Journey through the Bible, Christian Board of Publications, 1995, p. 108)

Saul's irrational pursuit of David and his con­viction that he is no longer able to function as king lead him to go against his own firm instructions to all the people. Saul had forbidden anyone to have anything to do with witches and those who dealt in any kind of magical practices. But he himself is finally driven by his obsessions to go to a woman in the town of Endor to ask her to bring him a message from the dead Samuel. This woman, who should be called a medium, not a witch, since she claimed to be able to speak in the name of Samuel, at first refused Saul, but when he forced her, she did her medium's job, and suddenly, there was Samuel speaking to Saul! But Samuel's message from the dead was exactly the same as his message during his lifetime: God had rejected Saul as king; David was to succeed him; and the most crushing news of all, Jonathan and he would fall in battle with the Philistines.

2Saul's great qualities show in this hour of trial. He is finally persuaded to take some food, and he then goes out to lead the army of Israel against the Philistines. He and his son do die on the hills of the region of Gilboa. Since David had, by this time, enlisted with the Philistines, he could have found himself required to go to battle against Israel. But the Philistines would not let David take part in the battle. They were suspicious of him, and they de­manded that he withdraw from the Philistine forces. And it was good that he did so, for on his return to his hometown of Ziklag he found that Amalekite raiders from the southern desert region had de­stroyed the city, taken great plunder, and carried away the wives and children of the inhabitants, including David's own family. He pursued them, destroyed the raiders, freed the captives, and re­covered all the goods that the Amalekites had taken.

3As David returned from the battle in the southland he heard the news of the defeat of Israel's armies and of the death of Saul and Jonathan. David's lament over the two of them, and espe­cially his bitter and yet almost lyrical lament over the dead Jonathan, can hardly be forgotten: "Saul and Jonathan, beloved and lovely! In life and in death they were not divided; they were swifter than eagles, they were stronger than lions....I am distressed for you, my brother Jonathan; greatly beloved were you to me; your love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women" (2 Samuel 1:23, 26).

4Still, despite David's sorrow, we know that the deaths of Saul and Jonathan worked out to David's advantage. Clearly, there was no one who could deny that David was the best person on the scene to succeed Saul. But if David had had a hand in Saul's death, the tribes in the north and the tribe of Judah would surely have been at war soon after. Saul's commander, Abner, and Saul's surviving son, Ishbaal, would have seen to that.

5As it was, David moved to the capital town of Judah, the wealthy southern town of Hebron, and settled there. He was then designated king of Judah by the leaders of the tribe, and he ruled for a seven-year period from Hebron.

6The time had now come for David to make some bold move to unite the people of Israel. On the border between the tribes of Judah and Ben­jamin was the Canaanite town of Jerusalem, occu­pied by a group called Jebusites. Jerusalem was only a small town at the time, located on the south­east edge of the Kidron Valley, with a fine source of water at the northeastern edge of the walled town, the Gihon Spring, which flowed continuously. An ancient tunnel had been dug through the rocky surface, down toward the spring, and a shaft had been dug out that allowed people to draw water up from the spring without showing themselves to an enemy located near the outside walls. Apparently, David and his warriors were able to climb up into the walled town through this shaft and tunnel. They took the city and David made it his capital town.

It was a brilliant move, for now David had a headquarters that did not belong to the territory claimed by Saul's tribe, Benjamin, or by David's tribe, Judah. It was easily defended from all sides except the north, and with its dependable water supply it could withstand siege for a long time.

8David was an immensely gifted individual. He was a loyal friend, a great warrior, a fine judge of character—at least in his early days—and an imaginative administrator and leader. The story­tellers stressed the fact that God was with David, seeing to his needs, guarding him in times of dan­ger, making things come out right for David. And David for his part turned to God for guidance. His respect for the religious traditions was great, and he knew how to keep the loyalty of the priests. It was not until David had grown older and his family began to be torn apart by jealousies and intrigues and actual crimes that David found him­self at odds with some of the priests. But in his early years, this gifted shepherd from Bethlehem was beloved by almost everyone he met.

 

 Scripture

1 Samuel 28:1 - 2 Samuel 5:25

                                                                                CHAPTER 28                                                                                 

 

1 In those days the Philistines gathered their forces for war, to fight against Israel. Achish said to David, "You know, of course, that you and your men are to go out with me in the army." 

2 David said to Achish, "Very well, then you shall know what your servant can do." Achish said to David, "Very well, I will make you my bodyguard for life." 

3 Now Samuel had died, and all Israel had mourned for him and buried him in Ramah, his own city. Saul had expelled the mediums and the wizards from the land. 

4 The Philistines assembled, and came and encamped at Shunem. Saul gathered all Israel, and they encamped at Gilboa. 

5 When Saul saw the army of the Philistines, he was afraid, and his heart trembled greatly. 

6 When Saul inquired of the LORD, the LORD did not answer him, not by dreams, or by Urim (casting lots), or by prophets. 

7 Then Saul said to his servants, "Seek out for me a woman who is a medium, so that I may go to her and inquire of her." His servants said to him, "There is a medium at Endor." 

8 So Saul disguised himself and put on other clothes and went there, he and two men with him. They came to the woman by night. And he said, "Consult a spirit for me, and bring up for me the one whom I name to you." 

9 The woman said to him, "Surely you know what Saul has done, how he has cut off the mediums and the wizards from the land. Why then are you laying a snare for my life to bring about my death?" 

10 But Saul swore to her by the LORD, "As the LORD lives, no punishment shall come upon you for this thing." 

11 Then the woman said, "Whom shall I bring up for you?" He answered, "Bring up Samuel for me." 

12 When the woman saw Samuel, she cried out with a loud voice; and the woman said to Saul, "Why have you deceived me? You are Saul!" 

13 The king said to her, "Have no fear; what do you see?" The woman said to Saul, "I see a divine being coming up out of the ground." 

14 He said to her, "What is his appearance?" She said, "An old man is coming up; he is wrapped in a robe." So Saul knew that it was Samuel, and he bowed with his face to the ground, and did obeisance. 

15 Then Samuel said to Saul, "Why have you disturbed me by bringing me up?" Saul answered, "I am in great distress, for the Philistines are warring against me, and God has turned away from me and answers me no more, either by prophets or by dreams; so I have summoned you to tell me what I should do." 

16 Samuel said, "Why then do you ask me, since the LORD has turned from you and become your enemy? 

17 The LORD has done to you just as he spoke by me; for the LORD has torn the kingdom out of your hand, and given it to your neighbor, David. 

18 Because you did not obey the voice of the LORD, and did not carry out his fierce wrath against Amalek, therefore the LORD has done this thing to you today. 

19 Moreover the LORD will give Israel along with you into the hands of the Philistines; and tomorrow you and your sons shall be with me; the LORD will also give the army of Israel into the hands of the Philistines." 

20 Immediately Saul fell full length on the ground, filled with fear because of the words of Samuel; and there was no strength in him, for he had eaten nothing all day and all night. 

21 The woman came to Saul, and when she saw that he was terrified, she said to him, "Your servant has listened to you; I have taken my life in my hand, and have listened to what you have said to me. 

22 Now therefore, you also listen to your servant; let me set a morsel of bread before you. Eat, that you may have strength when you go on your way." 

23 He refused, and said, "I will not eat." But his servants, together with the woman, urged him; and he listened to their words. So he got up from the ground and sat on the bed. 

24 Now the woman had a fatted calf in the house. She quickly slaughtered it, and she took flour, kneaded it, and baked unleavened cakes. 

25 She put them before Saul and his servants, and they ate. Then they rose and went away that night. 

 

 

                                                                                  CHAPTER 29                                                                                

 

 

1 Now the Philistines gathered all their forces at Aphek, while the Israelites were encamped by the fountain that is in Jezreel. 

2 As the lords of the Philistines were passing on by hundreds and by thousands, and David and his men were passing on in the rear with Achish,

3 the commanders of the Philistines said, "What are these Hebrews doing here?" Achish said to the commanders of the Philistines, "Is this not David, the servant of King Saul of Israel, who has been with me now for days and years? Since he deserted to me I have found no fault in him to this day." 

4 But the commanders of the Philistines were angry with him; and the commanders of the Philistines said to him, "Send the man back, so that he may return to the place that you have assigned to him; he shall not go down with us to battle, or else he may become an adversary to us in the battle. For how could this fellow reconcile himself to his lord? Would it not be with the heads of the men here? 

5 Is this not David, of whom they sing to one another in dances, 'Saul has killed his thousands, and David his ten thousands'?" 

6 Then Achish called David and said to him, "As the LORD lives, you have been honest, and to me it seems right that you should march out and in with me in the campaign; for I have found nothing wrong in you from the day of your coming to me until today. Nevertheless the lords do not approve of you. 

7 So go back now; and go peaceably; do nothing to displease the lords of the Philistines." 

8 David said to Achish, "But what have I done? What have you found in your servant from the day I entered your service until now, that I should not go and fight against the enemies of my lord the king?" 

9 Achish replied to David, "I know that you are as blameless in my sight as an angel of God; nevertheless, the commanders of the Philistines have said, 'He shall not go up with us to the battle.' 

10 Now then rise early in the morning, you and the servants of your lord who came with you, and go to the place that I appointed for you.  As for the evil report, do not take it to heart, for you have done well before me. Start early in the morning, and leave as soon as you have light." 

11 So David set out with his men early in the morning, to return to the land of the Philistines. But the Philistines went up to Jezreel. 

 

 

                                                                                  CHAPTER 30                                                                                 

 

 

1 Now when David and his men came to Ziklag on the third day, the Amalekites had made a raid on the Negeb and on Ziklag. They had attacked Ziklag, burned it down,

2 and taken captive the women and all who were in it, both small and great; they killed none of them, but carried them off, and went their way. 

3 When David and his men came to the city, they found it burned down, and their wives and sons and daughters taken captive. 

4 Then David and the people who were with him raised their voices and wept, until they had no more strength to weep. 

5 David's two wives also had been taken captive, Ahinoam of Jezreel, and Abigail the widow of Nabal of Carmel. 

6 David was in great danger; for the people spoke of stoning him, because all the people were bitter in spirit for their sons and daughters. But David strengthened himself in the LORD his God. 

7 David said to the priest Abiathar son of Ahimelech, "Bring me the ephod." So Abiathar brought the ephod to David. 

8 David inquired of the LORD, "Shall I pursue this band? Shall I overtake them?" He answered him, "Pursue; for you shall surely overtake and shall surely rescue." 

9 So David set out, he and the six hundred men who were with him. They came to the Wadi Besor, where those stayed who were left behind. 

10 But David went on with the pursuit, he and four hundred men; two hundred stayed behind, too exhausted to cross the Wadi Besor. 

11 In the open country they found an Egyptian, and brought him to David. They gave him bread and he ate, they gave him water to drink; 

12 they also gave him a piece of fig cake and two clusters of raisins. When he had eaten, his spirit revived; for he had not eaten bread or drunk water for three days and three nights. 

13 Then David said to him, "To whom do you belong? Where are you from?" He said, "I am a young man of Egypt, servant to an Amalekite.  My master left me behind because I fell sick three days ago. 

14 We had made a raid on the Negeb of the Cherethites and on that which belongs to Judah and on the Negeb of Caleb; and we burned Ziklag down." 

15 David said to him, "Will you take me down to this raiding party?" He said, "Swear to me by God that you will not kill me, or hand me over to my master, and I will take you down to them." 

16 When he had taken him down, they were spread out all over the ground, eating and drinking and dancing, because of the great amount of spoil they had taken from the land of the Philistines and from the land of Judah. 

17 David attacked them from twilight until the evening of the next day. Not one of them escaped, except four hundred young men, who mounted camels and fled. 

18 David recovered all that the Amalekites had taken; and David rescued his two wives. 

19 Nothing was missing, whether small or great, sons or daughters, spoil or anything that had been taken; David brought back everything. 

20 David also captured all the flocks and herds, which were driven ahead of the other cattle; people said, "This is David's spoil." 

21 Then David came to the two hundred men who had been too exhausted to follow David, and who had been left at the brook Besor.  They went out to meet David and to meet the people who were with him.  When David drew near to the people he saluted them. 

22 Then all the corrupt and worthless fellows among the men who had gone with David said, "Because they did not go with us, we will not give them any of the spoil that we have recovered, except that each man may take his wife and children, and leave." 

23 But David said, "You shall not do so, my brothers, with what the LORD has given us; he has preserved us and handed over to us the raiding party that attacked us. 

24 Who would listen to you in this matter? For the share of the one who goes down into the battle shall be the same as the share of the one who stays by the baggage; they shall share alike." 

25 From that day forward he made it a statute and an ordinance for Israel; it continues to the present day. 

26 When David came to Ziklag, he sent part of the spoil to his friends, the elders of Judah, saying, "Here is a present for you from the spoil of the enemies of the LORD"; 

27 it was for those in Bethel, in Ramoth of the Negeb, in Jattir,

28 in Aroer, in Siphmoth, in Eshtemoa,

29 in Racal, in the towns of the Jerahmeelites, in the towns of the Kenites,

30 in Hormah, in Bor-ashan, in Athach,

31 in Hebron, all the places where David and his men had roamed.

 

 

                                                                                  CHAPTER 31                                                                                

 

 

1 Now the Philistines fought against Israel; and the men of Israel fled before the Philistines, and many fell on Mount Gilboa. 

2 The Philistines overtook Saul and his sons; and the Philistines killed Jonathan and Abinadab and Malchishua, the sons of Saul. 

3 The battle pressed hard upon Saul; the archers found him, and he was badly wounded by them. 

4 Then Saul said to his armor-bearer, "Draw your sword and thrust me through with it, so that these uncircumcised may not come and thrust me through, and make sport of me." But his armor-bearer was unwilling; for he was terrified. So Saul took his own sword and fell upon it. 

5 When his armor-bearer saw that Saul was dead, he also fell upon his sword and died with him. 

6 So Saul and his three sons and his armor-bearer and all his men died together on the same day. 

7 When the men of Israel who were on the other side of the valley and those beyond the Jordan saw that the men of Israel had fled and that Saul and his sons were dead, they forsook their towns and fled; and the Philistines came and occupied them. 

8 The next day, when the Philistines came to strip the dead, they found Saul and his three sons fallen on Mount Gilboa. 

9 They cut off his head, stripped off his armor, and sent messengers throughout the land of the Philistines to carry the good news to the houses of their idols and to the people. 

10 They put his armor in the temple of Astarte; and they fastened his body to the wall of Beth-shan. 

11 But when the inhabitants of Jabesh-gilead heard what the Philistines had done to Saul,

12 all the valiant men set out, traveled all night long, and took the body of Saul and the bodies of his sons from the wall of Beth-shan.  They came to Jabesh and burned them there. 

13 Then they took their bones and buried them under the tamarisk tree in Jabesh, and fasted seven days. 

 

                                                                                     II Samuel                                                                                   

 

 

 

                                                                                   CHAPTER 1                                                                                 

 

 

1 After the death of Saul, when David had returned from defeating the Amalekites, David remained two days in Ziklag. 

2 On the third day, a man came from Saul's camp, with his clothes torn and dirt on his head. When he came to David, he fell to the ground and did obeisance. 

3 David said to him, "Where have you come from?" He said to him, "I have escaped from the camp of Israel." 

4 David said to him, "How did things go? Tell me!" He answered, "The army fled from the battle, but also many of the army fell and died; and Saul and his son Jonathan also died." 

5 Then David asked the young man who was reporting to him, "How do you know that Saul and his son Jonathan died?" 

6 The young man reporting to him said, "I happened to be on Mount Gilboa; and there was Saul leaning on his spear, while the chariots and the horsemen drew close to him. 

7 When he looked behind him, he saw me, and called to me. I answered, 'Here sir.' 

8 And he said to me, 'Who are you?' I answered him, 'I am an Amalekite.' 

9 He said to me, 'Come, stand over me and kill me; for convulsions have seized me, and yet my life still lingers.'

10 So I stood over him, and killed him, for I knew that he could not live after he had fallen. I took the crown that was on his head and the armlet that was on his arm, and I have brought them here to my lord." 

11 Then David took hold of his clothes and tore them; and all the men who were with him did the same. 

12 They mourned and wept, and fasted until evening for Saul and for his son Jonathan, and for the army of the LORD and for the house of Israel, because they had fallen by the sword. 

13 David said to the young man who had reported to him, "Where do you come from?" He answered, "I am the son of a resident alien, an Amalekite." 

14 David said to him, "Were you not afraid to lift your hand to destroy the Lord's anointed?" 

15 Then David called one of the young men and said, "Come here and strike him down." So he struck him down and he died. 

16 David said to him, "Your blood be on your head; for your own mouth has testified against you, saying, 'I have killed the Lord's anointed.'" 

17 David intoned this lamentation over Saul and his son Jonathan.

18 (He ordered that The Song of the Bow be taught to the people of Judah; it is written in the Book of Jashar.) He said: 

19 Your glory, O Israel, lies slain upon your high places! How the mighty have fallen! 

20 Tell it not in Gath, proclaim it not in the streets of Ashkelon; or the daughters of the Philistines will rejoice, the daughters of the uncircumcised will exult. 

21 You mountains of Gilboa, let there be no dew or rain upon you, nor bounteous fields! For there the shield of the mighty was defiled, the shield of Saul, anointed with oil no more. 

22 From the blood of the slain, from the fat of the mighty, the bow of Jonathan did not turn back, nor the sword of Saul return empty. 

23 Saul and Jonathan, beloved and lovely! In life and in death they were not divided; they were swifter than eagles, they were stronger than lions. 

24 O daughters of Israel, weep over Saul, who clothed you with crimson, in luxury, who put ornaments of gold on your apparel. 

25 How the mighty have fallen in the midst of the battle! Jonathan lies slain upon your high places. 

26 I am distressed for you, my brother Jonathan; greatly beloved were you to me; your love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women. 

27 How the mighty have fallen, and the weapons of war perished!

 

 

                                                                                   CHAPTER 2                                                                                 

 

 

1 After this David inquired of the LORD, "Shall I go up into any of the cities of Judah?" The LORD said to him, "Go up." David said, "To which shall I go up?" He said, "To Hebron." 

2 So David went up there, along with his two wives, Ahinoam of Jezreel, and Abigail the widow of Nabal of Carmel. 

3 David brought up the men who were with him, every one with his household; and they settled in the towns of Hebron. 

4 Then the people of Judah came, and there they anointed David king over the house of Judah. When they told David, "It was the people of Jabesh-gilead who buried Saul," 

5 David sent messengers to the people of Jabesh-gilead, and said to them, "May you be blessed by the LORD, because you showed this loyalty to Saul your lord, and buried him! 

6 Now may the LORD show steadfast love and faithfulness to you! And I too will reward you because you have done this thing. 

7 Therefore let your hands be strong, and be valiant; for Saul your lord is dead, and the house of Judah has anointed me king over them." 

8 But Abner son of Ner, commander of Saul's army, had taken Ishbaal son of Saul, and brought him over to Mahanaim. 

9 He made him king over Gilead, the Ashurites, Jezreel, Ephraim, Benjamin, and over all Israel. 

10 Ishbaal, Saul's son, was forty years old when he began to reign over Israel, and he reigned two years. But the house of Judah followed David. 

11 The time that David was king in Hebron over the house of Judah was seven years and six months. 

12 Abner son of Ner, and the servants of Ishbaal son of Saul, went out from Mahanaim to Gibeon. 

13 Joab son of Zeruiah, and the servants of David, went out and met them at the pool of Gibeon. One group sat on one side of the pool, while the other sat on the other side of the pool. 

14 Abner said to Joab, "Let the young men come forward and have a contest before us." Joab said, "Let them come forward." 

15 So they came forward and were counted as they passed by, twelve for Benjamin and Ishbaal son of Saul, and twelve of the servants of David. 

16 Each grasped his opponent by the head, and thrust his sword in his opponent's side; so they fell down together. Therefore that place was called Helkath-hazzurim, which is at Gibeon. 

17 The battle was very fierce that day; and Abner and the men of Israel were beaten by the servants of David. 

18 The three sons of Zeruiah were there, Joab, Abishai, and Asahel. Now Asahel was as swift of foot as a wild gazelle. 

19 Asahel pursued Abner, turning neither to the right nor to the left as he followed him. 

20 Then Abner looked back and said, "Is it you, Asahel?" He answered, "Yes, it is." 

21 Abner said to him, "Turn to your right or to your left, and seize one of the young men, and take his spoil." But Asahel would not turn away from following him. 

22 Abner said again to Asahel, "Turn away from following me; why should I strike you to the ground? How then could I show my face to your brother Joab?" 

23 But he refused to turn away. So Abner struck him in the stomach with the butt of his spear, so that the spear came out at his back. He fell there, and died where he lay. And all those who came to the place where Asahel had fallen and died, stood still. 

24 But Joab and Abishai pursued Abner. As the sun was going down they came to the hill of Ammah, which lies before Giah on the way to the wilderness of Gibeon. 

25 The Benjaminites rallied around Abner and formed a single band; they took their stand on the top of a hill. 

26 Then Abner called to Joab, "Is the sword to keep devouring forever? Do you not know that the end will be bitter? How long will it be before you order your people to turn from the pursuit of their kinsmen?" 

27 Joab said, "As God lives, if you had not spoken, the people would have continued to pursue their kinsmen, not stopping until morning." 

28 Joab sounded the trumpet and all the people stopped; they no longer pursued Israel or engaged in battle any further. 

29 Abner and his men traveled all that night through the Arabah; they crossed the Jordan, and, marching the whole forenoon, they came to Mahanaim. 

30 Joab returned from the pursuit of Abner; and when he had gathered all the people together, there were missing of David's servants nineteen men besides Asahel. 

31 But the servants of David had killed of Benjamin three hundred sixty of Abner's men. 

32 They took up Asahel and buried him in the tomb of his father, which was at Bethlehem. Joab and his men marched all night, and the day broke upon them at Hebron. 

 

 

                                                                                   CHAPTER 3                                                                                  

 

 

1 There was a long war between the house of Saul and the house of David; David grew stronger and stronger, while the house of Saul became weaker and weaker. 

2 Sons were born to David at Hebron: his firstborn was Amnon, of Ahinoam of Jezreel; 

3 his second, Chileab, of Abigail the widow of Nabal of Carmel; the third, Absalom son of Maacah, daughter of King Talmai of Geshur; 

4 the fourth, Adonijah son of Haggith; the fifth, Shephatiah son of Abital; 

5 and the sixth, Ithream, of David's wife Eglah. These were born to David in Hebron. 

6 While there was war between the house of Saul and the house of David, Abner was making himself strong in the house of Saul. 

7 Now Saul had a concubine whose name was Rizpah daughter of Aiah. And Ishbaal said to Abner, "Why have you gone in to my father's concubine?" 

8 The words of Ishbaal made Abner very angry; he said, "Am I a dog's head for Judah? Today I keep showing loyalty to the house of your father Saul, to his brothers, and to his friends, and have not given you into the hand of David; and yet you charge me now with a crime concerning this woman. 

9 So may God do to Abner and so may he add to it! For just what the LORD has sworn to David, that will I accomplish for him,

10 to transfer the kingdom from the house of Saul, and set up the throne of David over Israel and over Judah, from Dan to Beer-sheba." 

11 And Ishbaal could not answer Abner another word, because he feared him. 

12 Abner sent messengers to David at Hebron, saying, "To whom does the land belong? Make your covenant with me, and I will give you my support to bring all Israel over to you." 

13 He said, "Good; I will make a covenant with you. But one thing I require of you: you shall never appear in my presence unless you bring Saul's daughter Michal when you come to see me." 

14 Then David sent messengers to Saul's son Ishbaal, saying, "Give me my wife Michal, to whom I became engaged at the price of one hundred foreskins of the Philistines."  

15 Ishbaal sent and took her from her husband Paltiel the son of Laish. 

16 But her husband went with her, weeping as he walked behind her all the way to Bahurim. Then Abner said to him, "Go back home!" So he went back. 

17 Abner sent word to the elders of Israel, saying, "For some time past you have been seeking David as king over you. 

18 Now then bring it about; for the LORD has promised David: Through my servant David I will save my people Israel from the hand of the Philistines, and from all their enemies." 

19 Abner also spoke directly to the Benjaminites; then Abner went to tell David at Hebron all that Israel and the whole house of Benjamin were ready to do. 

20 When Abner came with twenty men to David at Hebron